I like to think us grandmas, in all of our years of experience, impart some wisdom on the grandkids in a way that they’ll never forget. That’s a big reason I started this site in the first place actually – to help with that connection, one that can continue on forever and ever.
Well, I came across this post on the Internet where a bunch of grandkids answered the question, “What are some life lessons you learned from grandma?” Below I am sharing the results along with the usernames of those who left the comments. It’s great to see so many younger people remembering these things… what lessons are you leaving behind?
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LuckyMuckle: If you notice something nice about someone, say it right then and there. Always spread happiness.
The Importance of Communication
FlatFold5390: After 60+ years of marriage, my grandparents showed me that communication is crucial. My grandpa actively listens and fixes issues when my grandma expresses concerns.
Embrace Old Age
canadrian72: My grandma loved being old and wise. She enjoyed giving advice and listening to the younger generation, teaching me to look forward to the wisdom and security of old age.
Take Care of Your Feet
ChipmunkGlittering37: My gran always said to take care of your feet because they have to carry you for the rest of your life.
Create a Relaxing Space
almostdoctorposting: My grandma advised keeping my bedroom separate from my studies to have a place to relax and destress.
Extend Your Skincare Routine
amyamybobamy7: Always include your neck in your skincare routine to prevent sagging and moisturize the back of your hands to keep them youthful.
Preserve Your Berries
katkannabis: Store your berries in mason jars with a paper towel at the bottom to keep them fresh for weeks.
Use the Good Stuff Now
[deleted user]: Don’t save the good things for “someday.” Enjoy your best clothes, jewelry, and experiences today.
Slow Down to Move Faster
Northwest_Radio: My grandma’s wisdom: “Slow down, you’ll get there quicker.” This applies to life, not just driving.
Value Time Over Gifts
AshamedRequirement56: Kids remember the time spent with them, like making cookies, more than the gifts they receive.
Organize Your Bedding
Equivalent-Fan-857: Store a full bedding set in one pillowcase for easy organization. Also, wash as you go when cooking to keep the kitchen tidy.
Choose Friends Wisely
jmarzy: “Show me who your friends are, and I’ll tell you who you are.” Be mindful of the company you keep.
Always Look Your Best
FlowerGi1015: My grandma, with impeccable fashion sense, always said to leave the house looking your best, just in case you run into someone important.
Find a F.A.T. Partner
kennysmithy: My grandpa taught me to marry a F.A.T. man: Faithful, Attentive, and Teachable. It’s equally important to be a F.A.T. partner.
Recognize the Value of Anger
[deleted user]: If you’re mad at someone, it means you care about them. If you didn’t care, you wouldn’t be angry.
Break One Law at a Time
rmarsha3: Grandma’s advice: “Only break one law at a time.”
Be Financially Independent
candmjjjc: Never be 100% financially dependent on a man. The best relationships are when both parties can choose to stay together but have the freedom to walk away.
Stand Up for Yourself
AFDIT: My grandma demonstrated how to iron a shirt for a husband by tearing it in two, showing me to never let anyone take advantage of me.
Cherish the Moment
rjfurious0212: Grandma’s wise words: “This time will be gone.” Live in the moment and appreciate it.
As I read through these lessons, I can’t help but nod in agreement. Each one resonates with me on a personal level, reminding me of the countless conversations I’ve had with my own grandkids. It’s amazing how universal these lessons are, transcending generations and cultures.
But more than just practical advice, these lessons are a testament to the unbreakable bond between grandmas and their grandchildren. They’re a reminder of the love, the laughter, and the endless wisdom that grandmas bring into our lives.
So, to all the grandmas out there, keep sharing your stories, your lessons, and your love. And to all the grandkids, treasure these moments, cherish these memories, and carry your grandma’s wisdom with you always.
Because in the end, it’s not just about the lessons themselves – it’s about the love and the legacy that grandmas leave behind. And that, my dear friends, is something that will never be forgotten.
